| Toasts
so many things can go right, and so many things can go wrong!
If you're worried about how things will turn out when people
who are slightly intoxicated start broadcasting their thoughts
to a crowd, take heart; here are some things to consider on
the subject of speeches and toasts.
During the actual speech or toast, start by standing up (and
fittingly, sit down when you're done). After you've prepared
something (no winging it, even if you think you can. You never
know when your brain will pick a moment to shut down when
it's time for a public-speaking opportunity), address the
person you're toasting by name.
Traditions vary throughout different cultures. Some wedding
toasts are prepared as lengthy monologues, some are followed
by the breaking of glassware. If you're expect to toast at
a wedding which is sultural in nature, discuss details with
the bride or groom in advance.
The bride and groom will be expected to do a lot of drinking
upon each wedding toast announcement. It's important to make
sure that their glasses are always filled. If you're the best
man of the wedding party, you may wish to pick up a book on
wedding toast etiquette. It's always nice to state how long
you have known and loved the couple. Your toast does not have
to be very long , but it should express warmth from your heart
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